Stop being Judgmental!


People must have their own suffering story. Either from their past, pain, or any other unspoken bad things. But unfortunately, not everyone is keen to understand about that kind of thing. Sometimes we judge people unconsciously. I mean, let's say, what's on your mind when you know your friend loves the things that you hate so much? Would you point your finger to your friend's face and say that she/he is in trouble? If yes, you are the one who is in trouble then.

Knowing that some of my friends need time to think about whether they will post things on their own social media page honestly hurts me a bit. It's their personal page, but they worry about people's opinions. Like, why? Of course, it wouldn't happen if they were never pointed out by people around them. Indeed, people judge a, b, c easily. 

Just because things are bad for you doesn't mean it will be the same way for others. You don't need to do a lot of things; just let them be! They know exactly what fits their style, taste, or whatever. Also, don't waste your energy sending them that kind of unfavorable vibe, like commenting with harsh words, dragging them down while their impressed by their things, etc. They didn't even bother you, so what's the problem?

That's why knowing and setting boundaries so people can't cross it over you is important. So, it's basically as simple as letting people be without being judged by you, ok? :)