I once thought that being an introvert was a disadvantage, especially in a society that glorifies extroverts more often. At that time, I pushed myself to pretend that I'm an extrovert, like interacting more with people even though I regret it right after a minute since it feels awkward, trying to be a social butterfly, etc. But as time goes by, it drained me as well. I end up self-blaming for not being an extrovert.
At this point, I think it's important to recognize that introverts have unique strengths. And I slowly recognize some advantages of being an introvert. In a noisy world, introverts have the capacity to filter out distractions and focus on what truly matters to them. Introverts also tend to be highly observant, taking in details that might go unnoticed by others. This attention to detail allows introverts to uncover insights and make connections that can lead to innovative ideas and solutions. It might be the reason why many introverts have an interest in creative things, eh?
Furthermore, introverts are mostly good listeners, preferring to take in the information before responding. I realize this since people around me keep telling me about their personal things, even though we are not close enough to exchange any personal things. So, I ask myself "Do they feel comfortable sharing that kind of personal thing with me?". Maybe by actively listening and absorbing information, introverts can provide thoughtful and well-informed responses that are more meaningful and impactful to others.
However, it is important to recognize that, as introverts, we can bring our own unique strengths to the table. It's also a form of self-love, right? And yes, at the end, knowing more and self-love are the main points of self-acceptance.